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I Haven't Given Up on men totally- Uche Ogbodo


Nollywood actress has revealed that she is not giving up on love just yet. She revealed this and more when Punch caught up with her:
Background
My name is Uche Ogbodo and I am an actress. I am from Akpugo in Nkanu Local Government Area of Enugu State. I am the second daughter in a family of five children. I had a fair upbringing because I come from an average family, but my parents worked hard. They ensured my siblings and I did not lack anything and they instilled good morals in us. My father was the best support I had as a child; I inherited my strength and hustling spirit from him. I studied Mass Communication at Enugu State University of Technology, Enugu.

Acting:
My father helped me to get into Nollywood. I came back from school one day and he told me that he met someone who could help me realise my dream of becoming an actor. Subsequently, he took me to the Actors Guild of Nigeria office in Enugu. The Late Pete Eneh was the chairman of the chapter. I was enrolled into the guild, auditioned that first day and was taken.
Marriage rumour:
It was the biggest mistake I ever made because it affected me a lot. I would say I didn’t look well or ask the right questions and that almost destroyed me. I would not go into details about my past relationship and I don’t know how an introduction became a marriage. All the traditional rites geared towards making me Ato Ubby’s wife were inconclusive. I knew he was sick before agreeing to marry him and we dated for one year. I knew only a few things about him, because he chose to share only a few things with me including his health challenges. I agreed to be with him because I wanted to care for him.
Motherhood
Motherhood has filled a great void in me. I always felt needy but it is gone. I guess God wanted to make me a mother in order to teach me certain things I needed to understand in life. My daughter keeps me busy and happy; I am grateful to God that I decided to have her even though my relationship with her father came to an end. As a mother, I have good plans for her. I will give her the best in life with or without her father’s input.
Men
A new relationship is not on my mind now, because one mistake is enough. I will consider a lot of things before I venture into another. I will get married someday, when I find my soul mate, someone who understands me in truth, and someone I understand. Transparency and honesty will the bedrock. I haven’t given up on men totally. I still wish to be under the care of a loving husband. I will try again, but this time, I pray it works.

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