1. Her man’s appearance: Men are usually considered
to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many
strrrp CLUBS and adalt magazines are actually targeted toward females?),
but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, bo dy and
movement as well, say M3ston and Bu#s. “s exu ally, women are attracted
to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,”Meston
explains.
“A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean
and well-kept. bo dy-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped
torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio s exu ally attractive. Motion is
important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be s ex
ual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a
good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym
2. The time of day: Meston
says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most
prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have s ex when they feel
their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners,
aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel s
exy — and that may or may not be at night.”
In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood,
pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled
out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a
post-jog qu1ckie right before her shower!
3. Certain smells: Meston and Buss explain that, for
women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it
comes to s exual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way
a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously
realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is —
not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also
plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man,
according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of
information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic
makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans
emit from various glands in their bo dy — can influence a woman’s desire
to be s exu ally 1ntimate with a man.
Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s
symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic FITNESS and ultimately can
determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For
many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an
important role in determining her willingness to have s ex with a man,
given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically HEALTHY,
strong children together,” says Buss.
4. Her guy’s choice of words: Often, what a man says
is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in
the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making
someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as
insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston. To score extra
sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do
together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can
often be s ex ually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a
sense of humor is also a s ex ual turn-on for the ladies:
“If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel
that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also
conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard
to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her
emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills
to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.
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